Studying and stressedYou've been staring at your study materials for twenty minutes, but somehow you've also checked your email twice, reorganized your desk, and started a load of laundry. Or maybe you've managed to sit down with your books, but your chest feels tight and you can't seem to retain anything you're reading. Sound familiar?

Here's what most people preparing for the ASWB exam don't realize: the feeling of being "stuck" in your preparation usually comes from one of two very different places. Understanding which one is affecting you changes everything about how you move forward.

When It's Actually Stress

Real exam stress shows up in your body first. You sit down to study and your shoulders tense. You open a practice question and your mind goes blank, even though you know this material at work. You wake up at 3 AM thinking about the exam, running through scenarios of what happens if you don't pass.

This is your nervous system responding to a genuine challenge. You're not avoiding the work - you're trying to do it, but your stress response is getting in the way. The distinction matters because stress responds to one set of strategies, while avoidance needs something completely different.

Think about how you assess a client's anxiety. You don't just look at what they say - you notice what's happening in their body, how they're breathing, whether they can stay present in the moment. The same assessment skills apply here. If you're sitting with your materials but feeling physically overwhelmed, that's stress.

When It's Avoidance Disguised as Busy

Avoidance is sneakier. It doesn't feel like you're avoiding anything because you're so busy. You're researching the perfect study schedule. You're reading articles about exam preparation. You're reorganizing your notes into a new system that will definitely make everything clearer.

But here's the tell: you're not actually engaging with exam-style questions. You're not testing yourself. You're not sitting with that uncomfortable feeling of not being sure of an answer. Avoidance keeps you in the preparation-for-preparation phase because that phase feels safer.

A social worker preparing for her Clinical exam told us she'd spent three weeks creating detailed flashcards for every DSM diagnosis. Beautiful work. Color-coded. Perfectly organized. But when she finally sat down with a practice test, she realized she couldn't apply any of it to actual exam questions. She'd been avoiding the harder work of clinical reasoning by staying busy with something that felt productive.

The Physical Difference

Your body knows the difference even when your mind doesn't. Stress makes you want to escape the situation entirely - you feel it and want to stop. Avoidance keeps you circling around the real work - you stay busy but never quite land on the thing that matters.

Try this right now: imagine sitting down with a full-length practice exam. Not reading about practice exams. Not planning when you'll take one. Actually opening it and starting question one. What happens in your body?

If your heart rate jumps and you feel a wave of panic, that's stress. Your system is reacting to a perceived threat. If instead you immediately think of five other things you should do first, that's avoidance. Your mind is protecting you from discomfort by redirecting your attention.

Why This Matters for Your Preparation

The ASWB exam doesn't just test what you know - it tests your ability to apply clinical judgment under time pressure while managing your own stress response. That's actually good news, because it means preparation isn't just about memorizing content. It's about building your capacity to think clearly when you're uncomfortable.

When you're stuck in stress, you need to build tolerance. Small exposures. Short practice sessions. Proving to your nervous system that you can handle this. When you're stuck in avoidance, you need to stop researching and start doing. The discomfort you're avoiding is exactly what you need to work through.

What Practice Tests Reveal

Here's where practice tests become diagnostic tools, not just study materials. When you take a practice test, you'll know within the first ten questions whether stress or avoidance has been your primary barrier.

If stress is your issue, you'll feel it immediately. Your mind will blank on questions you'd handle fine at work. You'll second-guess answers you know are correct. Your thoughts will race ahead to your score instead of staying with the question in front of you. This is useful information. Now you know what needs attention.

If avoidance is your issue, you'll be surprised by how much you actually know. You'll find yourself thinking "this isn't as bad as I thought" or "I can figure these out." The practice test breaks through the avoidance by forcing engagement with the actual task you've been circling around.

Moving Through Stress

When stress is slowing you down, your nervous system needs evidence that this is manageable. That evidence doesn't come from reading or reviewing - it comes from repeated experience with the exam format itself. Each practice session that you survive (and you will survive it) resets your baseline a little lower.

Start with smaller chunks if you need to. Take 20 questions instead of a full section. Set a timer for 30 minutes instead of two hours. The goal isn't to simulate perfect exam conditions yet. The goal is to teach your body that engaging with exam questions doesn't actually threaten your survival, even though it feels that way right now.

Between practice sessions, notice what helps you regulate. Some people need movement - a walk before studying helps them settle. Others need to feel physically grounded - feet flat on the floor, back against the chair, a few deep breaths before starting. You already know these strategies from your clinical work. Use them for yourself.

Moving Through Avoidance

When avoidance is your barrier, the solution is simpler but not easier: start before you're ready. Stop researching study methods and pick one. Stop organizing your materials and use what you have. Stop planning your timeline and begin today.

Avoidance wants you to believe you need the perfect conditions before you can start. You don't. You need to start before you feel ready, because feeling ready comes from doing, not from preparing to do.

This doesn't mean being reckless with your preparation. It means recognizing that the planning phase serves avoidance after a certain point. If you've been "getting ready to study" for more than a week, you're not preparing anymore. You're avoiding.

The Practice Test Solution

Whether you're dealing with stress or avoidance, practice tests address the core issue. They expose you to the actual demands of the exam in a way that reading or reviewing never can. More importantly, they show you what you can already handle.

That's what both stress and avoidance are really about - uncertainty about whether you're capable of this. The only way to answer that question is to engage with questions that mirror the actual exam. Not someday. Not after you've reviewed everything one more time. Now, with what you know today.

You'll probably get some wrong. That's the point. The exam will include questions you're not certain about. Learning to work through uncertainty is part of the preparation, not something that happens after you've prepared enough. There is no "enough" that eliminates uncertainty. There's only building your capacity to think through it.

What This Looks Like in Practice

Let's say you've identified that stress is your primary barrier. You sit down with a practice test and make it through 30 questions before your anxiety spikes too high to continue. You stop there. That's not failure - that's data. Tomorrow, you try for 30 again. Maybe you make it to 35. Maybe you only make it to 25, but you notice you were less anxious during those 25.

This is how you expand your window of tolerance. Not by pushing through until you break, but by working at the edge of what you can manage and gradually expanding that edge. The practice test gives you a concrete way to measure progress that your nervous system can recognize.

Or let's say you've identified avoidance. You've been telling yourself you'll take a practice test "once you're ready." You recognize that as avoidance now. So you open a practice test today, ready or not. You commit to finishing one section. Not reviewing it. Not looking up answers as you go. Just completing it. That's the work avoidance has been preventing.

Moving Forward

The professionals who succeed with the ASWB exam aren't the ones who never feel stressed or who never avoid. They're the ones who recognize what's happening and adjust accordingly. They build stress tolerance through repeated exposure. They interrupt avoidance by starting before they feel ready.

Both approaches require engaging with actual exam questions, not just studying content. That's why practice tests aren't just one tool among many - they're the tool that addresses both barriers simultaneously. They expose the stress so you can work with it. They eliminate the avoidance by forcing engagement.

Whatever's been slowing you down, the solution involves the same next step: open a practice test and start. Not perfectly. Not when you're ready. Just start. Your body and mind will show you what needs attention from there.


Ready to identify whether stress or avoidance is your barrier? Take a full-length practice test and find out what you're actually working with. Start a practice exam now and get the diagnostic information you need to move forward.




January 5, 2026
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